Tag: Date

Welcome to The Fluffy T Rex. Let’s explore the science behind meeting and attracting a girl. According to a 2012 study done at Stanford, the most common way to meet a spouse is through friends.

But that might soon be a limiting approach. But approaching a female can be scary. That’s normal.

But we can decide to act despite of our fears. One of the originators of cognitive behavioral theory Albert Ellis, was terrified of approaching girls. Yet in just one month he pushed himself to talk to 100 women in the Bronx Botanical Gardens. Despite his efforts only a single girl agreed to go on a date with Ellis, but she didn’t even show up. So maybe the girls not attracted to him, but then again, what are girls attracted to?

Continue reading “How to Get a Girlfriend / Science of Attraction – Tinder & OkCupid”

– Hello, so, I’m currently single, and the last guy that I dated, after a few weeks of dating, he invited me to go on this really exotic vacation – [Vivica] Mmm. – That he paid for. – Okay. – But up until this point, we hadn’t had sex yet. I like to wait a little bit, – [Vivica] As you should. – Wait for the chemistry, and all that, so we went on this exotic vacation, and it was amazing, chemistry was there, obviously we ended up having sex, and then when we got back from this trip, things just kind of started to fizzle out. – [Vivica] Hmm. – So, my question is, how long are we supposed to wait, I feel like if we do wait, – Mhmm. – You can get burned, – Right. – And you’re investing a lot of time and emotions in too, and you get hurt, but if you, – So your question is, when you’re dating someone, how long should you wait before you have sex? – Exactly. – Huh, fellas? – I don’t know, I feel like it’s better to find out sooner than later, you know, I think you got your answer, (audience laughing) But you know, I’ve been hit with the three date rule before, and you know, I think guys should respect it, like if, you know, you want to wait it out, like, that’s totally cool, but um, man, I don’t know, I feel like if we’re trying to do this thing, like, let’s figure it out now. (laughing) Yeah. – See, I’m different, I like building the anticipation a little bit. Uh, it makes, building up that tension a little bit, uh, and plus, if he’s being a little bit impatient in that department, if he’s prioritizing the sex over the relationship, then I don’t think he’s the guy for you. (audience applauding) – You had a good time, – [Samantha] Yeah. – You just went with your gut feeling, – Of course. – Right, and I don’t like putting numbers on things. It’s not like, oh, three months, six days, six months, like, no, you felt it, you did it, you’re a grown woman, and now it’s just up to you guys to try to build the relationship, right, because you can’t go back on it. – [Samantha] No. – You already gave it up, so, you know. (audience laughing) – All right, let me hear from the ladies.

Continue reading “How Long Should You Wait before Getting Intimate in a New Relationship?”