Hey guys, it’s Sarah Norris and Carrie Einck from the STAR Institute for SPD and we are going to be talking about relationships today and specifically how important it is to be considering all the relationships that impact our clients and the individuals we work with. At STAR we use a relationship based model with all of our clients so even with our kids we are using relationship based model our parents are in all our treatment sessions, we put in parent education into all our programs because this is what we found is the most effective way that we can treat the family and make those changes that last throughout the lifespan. So we use play theories we use cognitive theories SI theories – all that goes into this relationship based model. So in starting to develop our adolescent and adult program, we knew that we wanted to keep this model the same and so we use a really heavy relationship based model with our teens and adults as well.
Do you or don’t you like other guys or girls pictures on Instagram Okay. Are you ready? Hey guys, I’m ika, this is Demetres we’re back with another post we’ve been asking you guys for post ideas and you guys have been submitting them and One of you suggested that we should do a relationship do’s and jumps this is what you guys came up with Yeah, but, not the obvious ones not like don’t cheat don’t Abuse the person you’re with obviously like not those one don’t hit anybody.
You never get frustrated by your spouse do you? Well, some of us do. Let’s talk about how to deal with a frustrating husband. Frustration has to do with unmet expectations.
Know as I introduced this topic, think about how that might affect your perception of your spouse. Frustration with husbands or with wives either way. It could be a co-worker or another relationship, we’re specifically talking about husbands in this post. What is your expectation of your husband? If he is completely meeting every expectation that you have, guess what?
What’s going on? As you can see next to me, we have a guest, which is very rare these days. This is my girlfriend Megan. Megan, who is not mic’d up right now.
We’re going to try to tweak the sound, but only I have a mic. She won’t be talking that much. But Megan, say hello to the guys.
Hey guys. Hey guys. They’re very seductive. That’s very nice.
Today we’re going to be talking about how to touch a girl on a first date. And I thought, best to demo this and have you understand better to have someone here to help explain this. That’s what we’re going to do. And if you recognized, she’s actually been on a post before. This is not her first post, but her second.
– All right, so I know you came to The Verge’s YouTube page to hear about the new Pixel phone but today, we aren’t talking about that. Instead, we’re talking about dating apps because us tech nerds deserve love just like everybody else. I’m going to help teach you how to get better at dating apps and hopefully help you find some love. Full disclosure though, I’m single too, but to be clear, it has nothing to do with me and everything to do with all the trash humans in New York City.
– Oh, hi. – So… So, what’s your curfew? – I don’t have a curfew. How old are you again? – We should go laser tagging. Oh, you would be a such a MILF at that, oh man. – MILF. – Like, I’m so used to just my mom’s friends, you’re just so much hotter than them.
So I just got my license and I can drive after nine on weekends. I’m just gonna, you know, save up. Just, you know, three months allowance and I’m gonna take you somewhere real nice.
– Sometimes, guys can just be a little (beep) sketchy. And then other times guys can just be straight, cheating, dirt bags who have a girlfriend, and they’re trying to pursue you. And on behalf of all men, you women can also be a little shady sometimes.
But this post is inspired by one of you subscribers asking about a very specific situation that was driving her a little crazy. And it’s all about what to do when a guy who’s got a girlfriend is pursuing you. Keep watching. (uplifting music) Hey there, I’m Adam Lodolce from sexyconfidence.com, where I help you create your love story.
Welcome to The Fluffy T Rex. Let’s explore the science behind meeting and attracting a girl. According to a 2012 study done at Stanford, the most common way to meet a spouse is through friends.
But that might soon be a limiting approach. But approaching a female can be scary. That’s normal.
But we can decide to act despite of our fears. One of the originators of cognitive behavioral theory Albert Ellis, was terrified of approaching girls. Yet in just one month he pushed himself to talk to 100 women in the Bronx Botanical Gardens. Despite his efforts only a single girl agreed to go on a date with Ellis, but she didn’t even show up. So maybe the girls not attracted to him, but then again, what are girls attracted to?
– Hello, so, I’m currently single, and the last guy that I dated, after a few weeks of dating, he invited me to go on this really exotic vacation – [Vivica] Mmm. – That he paid for. – Okay. – But up until this point, we hadn’t had sex yet. I like to wait a little bit, – [Vivica] As you should. – Wait for the chemistry, and all that, so we went on this exotic vacation, and it was amazing, chemistry was there, obviously we ended up having sex, and then when we got back from this trip, things just kind of started to fizzle out. – [Vivica] Hmm. – So, my question is, how long are we supposed to wait, I feel like if we do wait, – Mhmm. – You can get burned, – Right. – And you’re investing a lot of time and emotions in too, and you get hurt, but if you, – So your question is, when you’re dating someone, how long should you wait before you have sex? – Exactly. – Huh, fellas? – I don’t know, I feel like it’s better to find out sooner than later, you know, I think you got your answer, (audience laughing) But you know, I’ve been hit with the three date rule before, and you know, I think guys should respect it, like if, you know, you want to wait it out, like, that’s totally cool, but um, man, I don’t know, I feel like if we’re trying to do this thing, like, let’s figure it out now. (laughing) Yeah. – See, I’m different, I like building the anticipation a little bit. Uh, it makes, building up that tension a little bit, uh, and plus, if he’s being a little bit impatient in that department, if he’s prioritizing the sex over the relationship, then I don’t think he’s the guy for you. (audience applauding) – You had a good time, – [Samantha] Yeah. – You just went with your gut feeling, – Of course. – Right, and I don’t like putting numbers on things. It’s not like, oh, three months, six days, six months, like, no, you felt it, you did it, you’re a grown woman, and now it’s just up to you guys to try to build the relationship, right, because you can’t go back on it. – [Samantha] No. – You already gave it up, so, you know. (audience laughing) – All right, let me hear from the ladies.
[MUSIC PLAYING] Welcome to Gospel Solutions for Families. I’m your host, Amy Iverson. The scriptures remind us over and over to wait upon the Lord. Former Apostle Elder Neal A. Maxwell put it this way: “Faith in God includes faith in His timing.” If you’ve ever wondered about the Lord’s timing in your life, you’ll want to join us today.
I’ll be talking with Lisa Lund. In 2004, Lisa married Russell Lund. Today, hanging on a sign in Lisa’s home is this quote: “Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives you a fairy tale.” Lisa’s fairy tale didn’t come the way she expected. Her fairy tale took faith in the Lord’s timing.